Ashamed Bihar and Terrorism in Assembly

When the people in many parts in Bihar are worried about the impending drought, when the middle class and the poor in the state that constitute the majority are suffering because of high prices due to unprecedented inflation, their representatives in the assembly are engaged in a shameful act to get media coverage.

Were they elected by the people of Bihar to do the same that they did in Bihar assembly and the whole country saw? Are they not fooling the people? Are the people of Bihar ready to accept their actions and concur with it?

And if it is for telling the people how actively they worked as their representatives through these acts of vandalism destroying the public properties, will the people re-elect them in the coming assembly election? If they still do, it will be a disgrace for Bihar, its leaders such as Jay Prakash Narayan and its people?

The opposition can certainly demand the discussion and even the resignation of the chief minster on the issue of suspected corruption but it doesn’t have the mandate to take law in their own hands, to physically fight in the house or to overturn the desks, break the chairs and uproot the microphones or hurl slippers at speaker? And all these happened in full view of the TV cameras and shown almost live to the whole country.

One can see a woman legislator going almost berserk throwing flower vases, Photo. Was there a necessity of her Chandi act?

Suspensions are not good enough for the offenders.Law must be same for the legislators for criminal offences.What they did in assembly can’t be and must not be termed as democratic protests.

Why can’t the legislators involved in violating the law and acting as criminals, the lady in particular that can easily be recognized be charged and convicted? Why don’t some PIL enthusiast come forward and demand legal proceedings against them? Why the constitution not be amended to jail such persons in the same manner as commoners?

I wonder why Bihar is learning all bad things from everywhere, from the legislators of UP and Karnataka, or some from the neighbouring Bengal?

I wish they get worried about the drought or the flood.

PS: Perhaps the present agitation of opposition in Bihar and the way it is being carried and continued will go in favour of Nitish instead of harming his prospect in the coming election. I conclude this after talking to some persons of Bihar in Noida. Perhaps the strategists have missed to understand this.

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Global Immigrants or World Citizens

Why should a set of politicians decide the definitions as well as restrictions on immigrants?We all know that the present boundaries of the countries have evolved over the centuries and the immigrations have been the natural phenomena since the beginning of human race. It will continue to go on like that unless obstructed. Many factors and situations beyond the control of the politicians of today and those of tomorrow will decide the legal and illegal immigration.

But inthis era of free market and globalization, restricting the immigration is a contradictory policy. Days are gone when only the western countries were in business of setting up business in underdeveloped countries. Today the developed world is having so much trade and business interactions with the emerging economies that free movement of the people between the different countries will be natural phenomenon.

According to a study conducted by the India-US World Affairs Institute of Washington, the Robert H Smith School of Business of the University of Maryland, and the Federation of Indian Chambers of Commerce & Industry, 90 Indian companies made 127 greenfield investments worth $5.5 billion between 2004 and 2009, and created 16,576 jobs in the US. During the same period, 239 Indian companies made 372 acquisitions in the US, creating more than 40,000 jobs. And these number will keep on increasing if the Indian economy keeps moving ahead. How should not there be a consensus in US on accepting the graduates of its first class universities coming from any country in the world if employed for five years with good records as citizens?

While there are about 25 million Indians spread across 189 countries, but interestingly, some 20 million foreigners are also living and working in India.

Sometimes, the political steps to bar the immigration from unfriendly country may not even work. Here is an example from India itself.

In 2009, India sent back 25,000 Chinese workers, because they were “semi-skilled” and was considered to be here fraudulently. Soon protests came in from New Delhi’s international airport developers. Those humongous glass panes that needed to be set up required special skills and Indians don’t have them. The Chinese do. The government had to backtrack. Some Indians may have to remain unemployed while overseas workers take the jobs.India will have to have enterprises and skilled manpower to match up with the tasks to be undertaken to take the economic growth to global level.

It is the same story in internal migration. Workers do come to Punjab for various menial jobs from Bihar. But when the enterprising farmers of Bihar bought harvesters from Punjab, a group of three Punjabi workers travel every season to Bihar to run the harvesters.

In West Bengal, it was difficult to find people to manual work and particularly for sanitation jobs, and the migrants even from as far as Rajasthan were engaged. However, things have changed today to a great extent. Perhaps that was the reason that UK allowed immigrants from Pakistan, Bangladesh and even India for such work in the country.

As the countries such as US and UK have restrictions for workers from other part of the world through different acts, India does have also created some:

India doesn’t allow more than 1 per cent of a company’s workforce to be foreign, nor does it allow employment to people making less than $25,000 a year. It may appear silly to many but are politically sellable.

It will be interesting to hear a Colombian immigrant’s recent lament in London, when he was about to be deported. “The reason for me being here is not just because I want to become rich or because I want to come and take your jobs. Imdoing the job that most English people wouldn’t do. I think I have never seen an English person cleaning a toilet. I don’t want to harm anyone … it’s hard to be judged as a criminal when all you are doing is what you think is best for your family. WhatI’m doing, cleaning toilets – is that a crime?”

It reminded me of one incident at Heathrow airport in 1982. Yamuna saw many Asian women wearing heavy gold jewellery working as janitors. She asked, Why are they here, why cant white women do that? I didnt have any answer then. And perhaps there is no answer for the Colombian in London or a Mexican or Cuban in California.

And still a person such as Obama or someone else somewhere such as Cameroon will keep on instructing federal agents to go through rolls of companies and businesses to weed out the illegal immigrants. It will remain the political whipfor the poor immigrants.

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Who Helps? Rain God or IMD

It was 9.30 PM yesterday. Alok was on the other side on phone from my village Pipra in Bihar. He was really concerned about the rain god who is almost deceiving the region after initial showers. The paddy seedlings are ready for transplantation. The canal that serves the village is not having water as the villages up the canal are not allowing the water to come down. Till few days back even the canal was not having any water, as the Sone barrage didn’t have water in its reservoir that serves the canal network in the region. Alok has deep bored tube wells in his fields to irrigate the plots and can use diesel pump. But the water level has gone down too much. It has no water. Perhaps last year also the rain was not good enough to replenish the water in mother earth down below.

• I talked to Madhukarpur the village about 20 kms away from Pipra. Satyabhama, my sister-in-law, informed that the villagers are organizing prayers for the goddess Sati Mai to bestow on it the rain. They can transplant their paddy fields only on the eastern side that are fed by a bigger irrigation canal. There is a fear of draught for the other field.

Alok and Satyabhama both are scared of the tough time ahead.

It will be really bad if the monsoon doesn’t oblige the region very soon. Surprisingly, Alok only few days ago had told me that it rained in Sasaram but not in Pipra. Today during my morning walk I happened to meet Mr. AK Singh who is from Motihari in Bihar. When I asked if it has rained in his village, he said that yesterday it had rained heavily. Why should not the region mentioned above get the rain? Yamuna says it’s normal. I can agree, as many a times it rains in Delhi but not in Noida. Only three days ago it rained heavily in Delhi new airport region in a short span of time delaying the maiden landing of the largest aeroplane, but neither New Delhi nor Noida got rain. Why does it happen? Is it because of the lack of balanced green cover in the region? In the last few decades, the villagers got rid of trees for increasing the land for cultivation. All the mango orchards around the villages have disappeared.

But what is there in fate of people in the area of Alok and Satyabhama this season? Will the monsoon bestow its generosity?
Surprisingly, as reported, the agriculture minister Renu Kumari of Bihar is satisfied. ‘‘There’s nothing to worry as the worst is over,’’ she said, adding, the farmers are happy and geared to carry seedling transplant. Has she not been informed about the region of Alok?

Even the India Meteorological Department (IMD) has not come out with any positive indication. It did not expect any possibility of ‘cyclogenesis’ (birth of a weather system) in the Bay of Bengal for another five days. Further, the all-India agro-met advisory issued by the IMD says, ‘though the rainfall has been deficient in some districts of the country, it has been largely well-distributed over the last fortnight’.

I don’t know if one can believe it. And who knows even these statements may be coming to keep the ruling political leaders happy? It is surprising that none of the major political parties and their leaders have talked about this climatic disaster hovering on the rice bowl of Bihar. Perhaps they are too busy in the battle of words meant to serve them in coming assembly election.

However, as per another prediction, the east and northeast India may get another round of rain over the next few days.

I wish it happens and brings cheers on the faces of millions of people in the region.

But can the scientists and technocrats of the country focus on seeing the vision of Tulsidas (मांगे बारिद देहीं जल रामचंद्र के राज) realized along with their researches on cloning human beings that are already in plenty and visiting moon?

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तुलसीदास कृत रामचरितमानस – एक बिचार

रामायण एक लंबा गाथा काब्य है| काफी समय लगा होगा उसकी रचना में| मैं दादाजी के रास्ते चलते हुए उसका मासपारायण करता हूँ| समय समय पर कुछ प्रश्न उभर उठते हैं |

लगता है तुलसीदास जी रामायण ख़त्म करने के बाद उसे फिर से सरसरी निगाह से नहीं देखे | कुछ कथा की असंगतियाँ दिखती हैं| मैं केवल दो उदहारण दे रहा हूँ|

बालकाण्ड में पार्वती शिव से कथा सुनाने को कहती हैं और कुछ घटनाओं का जिक्र करती हैं :
बहुरि कहहु करुनायतन कीन्ह जो अचरज राम|
प्रजा सहित रघुबंसमनि किमि गवाने निज धाम ||

तुलसीदास को जब राम कैसे अपने धाम गए नहीं बताना था तो पार्वती से यह प्रश्न नहीं करवाना चाहिए था| शायद रामायण लिखने का अंत आते आते वे भूल गए पार्वती का अनुरोध|

इसीतरह लंकाकांड के आखिरी में राम विमान से लौट रहे हैं| प्रयाग में त्रिवेणी पर दान देते हैं:
पुनि प्रभु आई त्रिबेनी हरषित मज्जनु कीन्ह |
कपिन्ह सहित बिप्रन्ह कहुं दान बिबिध बिधि दीन्ह ||

कहाँ से ? बिभीषण का कोई धन तो वे लिए ही नहीं थे| बिभीषण से उसे सभी बानरों में बंटवा दिए थे | मैं तुलसीदास जी की आलोचना नहीं करता हूँ | चाहता हूँ अपने अज्ञान का अंत करना | कोई इसका समाधान करे तो अच्छा लगेगा, पर उत्तर तर्कसंगत होना चाहिए | नहीं तो मैं यह माँ लूँगा कि संपादन का समय ही नहीं मिला|

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And They Left

And finally they left us today early in the morning for US. With a duty to wake them up at 2.30 AM, I could hardly sleep for an hour. For me, it’s pretty usual and doesn’t cause any problem still. As such also, many a times I get up at very early hours.

The evening was really fulsome for me. I could come closer to Anvita. When I found her refusing to take any food to everyone, I tried my hand. It was a pleasure to see her jump from the bed every time I call her for taking the portion of puri and before that a piece of mango. Every child perhaps expects a personal care and loving approach. Kesav had taken his quota of Halwa prepared by his grandmother that he loves and asks for.


As an old man and a little emotional character I was trying to find out what all these kids have taken from their father, Rakesh. I was also watching Rakesh closely. Many of his ways and manners to behave in a particular situation have remained same.

I am amazed to find his love of books that’s almost similar to mine. For that matter, all the three have developed that trait. When I offered him some books from my collections that I finished reading, Rakesh picked up Gurucharan Das’s latest dealing with the Mahabharat’s characters, and Nandan Nilekani’s ‘Imagining India’. He wanted to take away one volume of the ‘Manufacturing Engineering Handbook’ too that dealt with manufacturing planning. I wish he would have done that. But the constraints of the limit of the weight of baggage prevented him to do that. His enterprise Zyom.com ‘reduces Total Product & Operations Cost for Hi-Tech electronics and Consumer goods companies, provides an innovative Lifecycle Cost approach that helps companies identify and minimize unaddressed costs,’ and works on the solutions of related problems. We all wish him success and pray for it.

Alpana as a good housewife had different tastes and priorities. But Yamuna and I loved her picking the black grams and peas that we got from Madhukarpur that would have gone waste as otherwise. We hardly take it as precaution advised by the doctor. Rakesh hardly gets involved into normal household tasks. Perhaps he has imbibed this from me. However, there is one difference and in Rakesh’s case, Alpana is working with an US company as Project Manager with a lot of responsibility and seriousness. And I am sure she will one day achieve what all I have been dreaming for years.

They left and we, two here in Noida will keep on waiting for a next visit from one of the three from US with eagerness and expectations of everything going on in ‘happy’ mode.

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Rural India: Create Employment Opportunities

Rural India is undergoing a transformation. However, most of the changes are taking the people born and brought up there out of their traditional engagements. I don’t know how many of the urban intellectuals are aware of that.

Bullocks and buffaloes used for ploughing the field are disappearing. Tractors, harvesters, and now even rice tranplanters are entering rapidly due to the shortage of immigrant labour force who got engaged in their home states in NREGA scheme. It has certainly improved the productivity and loss of final produce compared to traditional harvesting.

I was amazed to learn about the use of special harvesters for potatoes and sugarcane in some states. And it’s happening even after the insane opposition of some political leaders such as Mulayam. No one can stop this from happening and neither should it happen at the cost of the improvement in productivity of farming. It improves the quality of life of the people in rural India too.
However, it will demand creation of jobs for the categories of workers, both male and female, in the rural India that used to get engaged in the traditionally manual processes of farming and other household activities. It requires a change in mindset of rural work force with certain amount of external input, as till now the offspring in the family used to go in for the family professions.

I was amazed yesterday when Alok, who manages the farming in village, expressed his desire about starting a poultry farm and plantation in big way. It’s a real welcome change in the mindset in a land where even the persons from landless rural community are no more interested in keeping cattle and making it a business.

The changing rural India requires a different type of assistance. As the landholding is getting reduced with every new generation, the farming as profession may not sustain the livelihood of the family engaged solely in it. The scientists and experts are expected to suggest ways and means for making a good living out of two-three acres of land. How long will it remain viable with new hybrid seeds and chemical fertilizers or with right combinations of commercial and traditional crops, be it floriculture or horticulture or even premium priced organically grown products with sufficient demand and market? I am sure no government can solve the problem by just increasing the subsidy on the inputs or the minimum support price of the produce.

Additional earnings by some of the members of the households can only make a difference.

Another way of creating employment can come out of skill training and encouraging entrepreneurships. Unfortunately, even after the tremendous growths in the use of machines in farm and appliances at home, the rural kids are not ready to getting engaged into the business of servicing the equipment. The farmers mostly depend on someone in the nearby town for the repair and services. India Inc must encourage the setting up of the service centres and facilities in the rural areas to cater to the local requirements.

A lot of employment can also come from rural housing, if innovative entrepreneurs of private sector get into the business. It’s a myth that rural India can’t afford modern houses and business clusters. However, it requires a frugal engineering and construction processes suiting to the local requirements using the locally available raw material and manpower.

A special national drive is necessary to study in detail and report on creating job opportunities in rural India depending on the local strength and requirements. All management schools and agricultural universities may take up the task through summer projects to cover all the six lakh villages in India. And a team of teachers and experts can consolidate the final recommendations.

There are already successful models of the efforts made by some like Percy Burnevik, former non-executive Chairman of ABB Ltd, the power and automation giant company, through Do Bear Production Unit, where 50 dalit women produce teddy bear and earn about Rs 150 for a doll. Almost all the daughters-in-law coming in village can be the potential candidates who can participate in the drive. Some like Sulekha can easily become an entrepreneur herself for various types of activities after suitable training and engage many.

Let the policy makers and every one wishing to see a better rural India start planning on the line of successful models and create the engagement for the different categories of people living in the rural India. And that only can bring prosperity and banish the poverty.

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Bandh or Political Terrorism

Rakesh, my eldest son, came from US to attend a marriage in Patna and combined it with some his business related work in Hyderabad. The marriage was on July 9, and he was to leave Patna for Hyderabad on July 10 for business meetings that were fixed well before he left US.

He was to leave for Patna from Delhi in the evening on July 8 as per schedule. It was late on July 7 that he came to know of the July 10, strike. In Noida, I did not know about it. As the protesters these days go to any extent to stop the operation of flights, railway trains, and even the vehicles on roads, our relatives in Patna advised for changing the travel plan. Rakesh spent few hours in fixing up the changed plan and made us all worry too. Will Lalu, Ram Bilas or for that matter all the political leaders who very often call these strikes or Bandhs as they call it, appreciate the difficulties and mental agonies of people affected in many ways by the rogue followers who manage these bandhs? Who should take the responsibility of the incidents of violence? Will Lalu and Ram Bilas justify their bandh supporters raining lathis on vehicle owners and shopkeepers who defied the bandh?

And then Rakesh had to take a flight on July 9 itself for Hyderabad via New Delhi without attending the marriage of his sister-in-law. Rakesh reached Patna around 8PM on July 8 and returned to Patna airport by 12 noon on the next day without attending the marriage and any other function. He had to leave behind his wife and kids in Patna.

And all the mess was due to the strike called by Lalu=Paswan against the price rise in the country. Interestingly, he had already seen one on July 5, when he arrived in Delhi in early morning on July 5. Fortunately, as it was in Delhi, he could come to Noida without any problem.

Leaders of Bihar have learnt the nitty-gritty of managing the bandhs in effective manner so that no sane person dares to come out from his house in a bandh perhaps from the masters of the art in the neighbouring state. Democracy allows only willing participation in protests. It never gives a license to resort to violence and threat to make others participate in a protest. Why should not the party resorting to violence in the democratic protests be banned? Why should the students be stopped from going to their schools and the poor workers to their works and the patients even critical ones are not allowed to go to hospitals?
I don’t know what Lalu and Paswan would have advised his sons if they get involved in such a situation. I and many feel aghast against the riding prices. But has any bandh that caused inconveniences to millions of people and loss of many types yielded any result? Is a check on the price rise their intention? Are not they showing their strength in this election year to their vote banks and trying to embarrass the state government?

K Subramanayam has very rightly called these bandhs as acts of terror similar to one carried out by the Naxalites in the country.

Why should not the political leaders innovate a peaceful way of protest without causing the loss to individuals or the nation? If these leaders try to copy everything that US does, why can’t they follow the same for democratic protests too?

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The House Became Home for Awhile

Rakesh arrived on Monday with Alpana, Keshav and Anvita. They were here for three nights with us. But primarily, their India visit is to attend a marriage in Patna. The Noida house became home for those days. I, as grandfather got some Indian sweets, pastries, and then mangoes and lichies for them that they liked. I watched every act of theirs and enjoyed their company and the childish conversations. Yamuna with all her aggravated arthritis prepared what she remembered they like. Interestingly, they enjoyed it too.

I found Rakesh is still as serious in his work as he used to be in his school days in study. Presently he is having a small enterprise of his own, Zyom. He will be going to Hyderabad from Patna, as he uses the services of some persons there for his business. I found him proud to be associated with manufacturing engineering and management that he studied in IIT, Kharagpur and in Purdue in US.

Rakesh joined me on my morning walk too where we discussed all sorts of subjects including the increasing necessity of a very good saving for the old age, as the future of the country’s economy is totally unpredictable. I also narrated my own experience. I showed them the flat in a high rise building complex I propose to buy for a little better security with advancing age. They liked it. The completion of the complex is a year and a half away but still I dream to be there and leave it behind as a common guest house for the extended family in India where the grand kids can come and stay for a while when in India.

I noticed Keshav remains busy with his books, while Anvita keeps herself engaged with crayons and drawing book. I found her doing a lot of sketches of various things including the birds visiting the veranda of the house where Yamuna keeps some maize grains for them. I see some potential in her for getting into fine arts. They tried to converse in Hindi mostly with us and that was the best thing that I liked. Though I found them fighting for words sometimes but still they are pretty good in that. As such Keshav is very miser with words while talking and Anvita tells most of her things through her hyper actions. However, I enjoyed the Anvita’s outrage the most and that too with Kehsav. But the most frightful was her act when she pushed Keshav and he fell from the bed. Anvita started crying though she was at fault and went into the bath room closed her inside. It took some effort from me to take her out. The cause of the conflict was the i-Pod she was using for which she wanted Keshav to teach something that she was not able to do.

I did go out to the sector market too with Keshav. For everything that I wanted to buy for him, he said no. And on his own he wanted to have a ride of cycle riksha. And we did, though a very short one. My best of the moment was when he was walking holding my hand. I don’t know who wanted more security the grandfather or the grandson. Unfortunately with all of the three sons in US I couldn’t enjoy the proximity with my grandchildren but I have utilized every little opportunity that I got to be with them in the best possible manner.

They left yesterday for Patna at around 1PM. Rakesh called me from airport and then today morning from Patna where they are staying in the grand guest house of Patna High Court in Chhajubag courtesy Alpana’s maternal grandfather. Rakesh will not be able to attend marriage that is getting solemnized July 9 and would have left for Hyderabad one day in advance, as he couldn’t have moved out on July 10 as scheduled earlier because of a general strike called by Lalu Yadav.

Alok, my cousin from Pipra called me in the night as he knew I must be finding myself miserable after they would have left. He said many good words, though he also asked me to pray for a monsoon. All in Bihar are waiting for a monsoon and worried as it is late. However, the national media is just silent about it.

This is how a grandfather gets the momentary joys these days.

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My Dilemma: Forward and Backward Castes

“Caste identity breaks the society, Bihari-ism unites.” Nitish had made this statement. Was it a political statement or the real wish of the Chief Minister? Should I expect ushering in of a bright beginning of political assistance in reducing the smell of the caste-bias in every response from the politicians and also sometimes the people of the region?

From the mails that I receive from the persons of Bihar’s origin living in different states of India and abroad, everyone is concerned about the developments in Bihar. They celebrate all the good news coming in media, but get morose with disturbing news too. And in most cases, the politicians as class are responsible for that.

The overwhelming caste-based approach in everything that happens in the state is shocking. For example, when the state president of the party of Chief Minister resigned, he was replaced by a person of the same caste, presumably to keep the people of the caste in good humour.

And as reported, leaders of the landed upper castes, cutting across the party lines, met in Patna on Wednesday to discuss the issues related to Bataidari (Sharecropping) Bill. They decided to organize a Kisan Mahapanchayat at Gandhi Maidan on May 2. I don’t understand if the bill will not trouble the landowners of other castes who are pretty big in numbers. So why didn’t the organizers call the representatives of landholders of all castes to participate?

Is it not unfortunate while the country is on fire in most of its corner, be it Kashmir, Manipur or Chattisgarh, some very senior cabinet ministers in New Delhi are debating and as I opine wasting their precious time on the issue of having a census on caste basis or not?

It is unfortunate but nothing can be done. I know many sections of the society are still very backward, and the reason for the same is only the lack of education. The leadership of the region over the last six decades has failed to understand the importance of education. Unfortunately, the so-called leaders of schedule castes or so called other backward class never understood nor attempted to bring about the revolution through education. Many a times, I and perhaps many hold a view that these leaders believed in the advantage in keeping the communities ignorant without education to keep their dominance in politics.

But my focus here is different. Let me emphasize that there is no difference between in other backward classes (OBC) and so called forward classes in the region, if one looks in depth in their quality of living, affluence level and even culture and values. I firmed up this view during my last visit to my village, when I happen to move around doing some research. Around my village that is predominantly of forward class, there are villages in which some are dominated by the forward class but in many, the people of other backward classes (OBC) are dominant. The dominance relates to the land holding of the village. In each of the village, the major landholding is with the families of different castes, and not necessarily forward classes. Let someone take an unbiased study of the living standard and style of the families. There is hardly much difference between those of the forward and OBC caste. Rather in many cases, on average OBC families may today be better off because of the traditional social taboos of restricting oneself to only the profession of the ancestors.

However, the families with no land holding, irrespective of castes but particularly dalits and mahadalits, need preferential treatment. Even the families of OBC and forward castes need government support as the financial conditions of a large number of them are miserable. With the abolition of the zamindari back in 1950s and breaking up of joint families in almost all castes and communities, the land holding on average is hardly between 2 to 5 acres. It is really difficult to make good living with that amount of land, particularly where the farming is totally dependent on the timely rain and monsoon.

Perpetuating the reservation or adding some more may be a political solution, but certainly not the best solution to bring about equity in society and improving the relationships between various classes and categories.

Instead of waiving off the loans, the government must work extensively on irrigation projects small and big conserving all the water and its use and for ensured rural electrification for every household who can afford for improving employability through individual entrepreneurships.

Every child must be ensured the traditional or job oriented (skill building) education to have employability.

The overall cost to the nation because of the dismal healthcare infrastructure is huge. The government and the private sector must pour huge investment. Many families even today spend everything in its possession to save life from deceases and remain in perpetual poverty.

But the most important is that all the actions must generate and improve the fellowship and brotherhood among the all people, and nothing should be done that is divisive, for example caste census.

Let few regional leaders not make mess of this great nation.

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From California to Carolina North

I spent some quality months in Pleasanton house of Anand in 2008. I liked the house. I loved its deck in the courtyard and the Santi Kunj Corner created by Shannon where I had lot of fun with Emma. My morning walk with Emma used to be the most enjoying. And then came Zach and he came so close to me in the few days that I spent with him. I learnt many things too about the child psychology during the time.


Pleasnton House

And between that time and now Shannon and Anand planned and have now moved to Carry in North Carolina renting their house in Pleasanton. Their new house in Carry is already in the last phase of completion. They have shifted there with Emma, Zach and Bart and are putting up in a fully furnished apartment during the transition period. I don’t know how good will be the ambience in Carry, though I hope it will be nice. However, the climate of Pleasanton can’t be transported to Carry.


Diwali 2008 in Pleasanton

When Shannon started packing and the house was getting emptier every day, I was pondering about how Emma and Zach must be thinking about it. They were so used to it and its surroundings. During our regular digital dialogues though it never appeared that Emma and Zach are concerned about the activities going on for the transportation.

However, Shannon ultimately wrote about Emma’s reactions in a nice mail from Carry that is given in original below.

I am sooooo beat. I should be sleeping and not typing this. 🙂

We are here. But what a time it has been.

Sunday night Emma finally got it. She finally really understood we were leaving. Everything was packed in boxes and life was inconvenient. She cried and said she didn’t want to leave the house. That she loved the house and wanted to take care of it. My heart broke.

Monday morning I took them to school in the rented van because our van was about to be picked up for transporting. She cried and cried and said she wanted to be in our car and that it was sooooo beautiful. I choked back the tears. When I got her to school, her teacher misunderstood her last day and gave her cubby away. Emma was dejected and crawled into a cubby and wouldn’t come out. That day the movers came out and emptied the house. It felt a bit surreal.

Once they left, we picked up the kids…and so with them, Bart, his crate, 5 suitcases, 2 backpacks, 2 car seats, a purse, a bag of food and minnie mouse, we headed for our hotel near SFO. That night went ok. I sat on the bathroom floor for awhile drinking a glass of wine while waiting for the kids to sleep and Anand to come back from dropping Bart at the airport.

Tuesday. Ugh. It wasn’t as nightmarish as I thought it would be. We got up at 4am to get ready since our flight was at 7. Emma was a real trooper. A true traveler. She was fine with the whole ordeal. Zach looked like “What the heck is going on with you insane people??” The kids were awesome on the flight till we had to change planes for the last hour. And then they lost it. I couldn’t blame them. I thought I was going to through a temper tantrum as well.

The apartment is ok. Small and a bit old. We had them take out some furniture so now it’s more livable. Bought our groceries and other things so now we feel more settled. I also registered them for a school I really liked. They start Tuesday.

But I’m homesick. So is Emma. She keeps asking if we can go home now. Anand has been great. He keeps my spirits high and keeps reassuring me. We drove by our new home today and I told Emma that was her castle. She exclaimed, “It’s perrrrrrfect.” I felt alot better then. 🙂

All in all, it’s fine. They have all the same things out here (minus In-and-Out) including Whole Foods and Trader Joe’s. So it’s ok. The people are nice and the weather has been very kind to us. Sometimes I’m afraid that I’m such a Californian that I won’t be able to adjust. I’m sure it’ll just take time.

Anyway, that’s it for now! I truly miss you all…

Take care!
Shannon


Emma’s Castle in Carry

Shannon has a lot of experience. I remember how badly was she feeling as Bart couldn’t accompany her when she moved from Australia to California. But the transfer this time was the first one of moving with two small kids-Emma and Zach. I can fully appreciate the emotional attachments with the place you live for some time. The utterances of Emma never surprised me. We hardly understand and appreciate what goes on in the mind of the innocent children who try to find the answer of the going-ons at the home on their own and try to have their own ideas of it. I wish we could read it well and accommodate that or facilitate it to make it smooth. As I was not there, I can’t authoritatively about the psychological reactions in the minds of the members of Sharma clan of Pleasanton. But perhaps they undertook it pretty objectively and did it successfully. Perhaps, the worst is over.

We from this distant land have kept on just praying.

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